Child Within retreats and conventions. Wake up to the sound of birds, sip coffee on your patio overlooking the sea, watch nature unfold before your very eyes and listen to barking foxes or ships’ horns as they sail along Gibraltar straits on their way to the open sea…this is just the beginning of a memorable ten stage Tarifa Retreat. Calm,Tide and Ripples Contemplation and Reflection. An average contemplation should not take longer than ten minutes.
When we have attempted to complete our course work we may not realise how gifted we are to have the capacity to be so honest with ourself. The greatest of what life has to offer is now available to …
Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites. Life can offer us no clearer sign that we have rejected our own inner self and hypocrite. If the world’s liars and hy…
Stagers are those who can deeply self-reflect. We shall know ourselves at our deepest level, and this is to know our Child Within.…
Stagers are those who have compassion for the struggles of others. Our reward shall be compassion for ourselves.…
Stagers are those who can realistically appraise their own insanity. Our reward shall be unadulterated growth towards true sanity.…
Lessons in life come bearing the gift of wisdom. We miss this gift when we begin to identify with the challenge or set back as “who we are”. We are more than that - as is everyone else on this planet…
Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within, who actively seeks alignment with the broader perspective of the intuitive voice, who deliberately seeks and finds a…
At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping.This behaviour manifests itself later in all our addictions.The idea that we can BINGE and then…
“Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green…
" Truth, like gold, is to be obtained not by its growth, but by washing away from it all that is not gold."- Leo Tolstoy …
When something really unforeseen happens in our life and then you go seek help, in our society many caretakers will tell us that we had some kind of "trauma". And then boom, once we hear that, most o…
It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't express our child within.And not just our small hidden child, We are talking about our Authentic Wild Child. That part of us that knows our trut…
Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states control our behaviour at different times. One identity may be differen…
We become conscious of our emotions during adolescence. We become aware of emotions such as shame, guilt, pride and embarrassment by the age of two, but do not fully understand how those emotions aff…
Self-awareness theory, developed by Duval and Wicklund in their 1972 landmark book A theory of objective self awareness, states that when we focus our attention on ourselves, we evaluate and compare …
Studies have been done mainly on primates to test if self-awareness is present. Apes, monkeys, elephants, and dolphins have been studied most frequently. The most relevant studies to this day that re…
The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association which in the context of truth,trust and consent become useful and effective, the stagers do not attempt to edit …
The Ten Stages are an experiential course usually of ten week duration, it consists of basic meditational practice, discussion and study. Part of the course is taken up with a revolutionary method of…
A carpet of silence is what we have to create in order to enter into first stage of sanctuary.A gentle acknowledgement of a journey inward back to the beginnings. This is a tall order for us nowaday…
The Ten Stage taught Course Work Design Related articles Stages Art Guide is a form of the ten stages that uses art media as its primary mode of expression and communication with the child within. Pr…
Punishment didn’t solve our child withins problems; it intensifies them.Want to know a secret about punishment?It requires constant escalation.In order to maintain the temporary effect of controlling…
Within our child often punishment has been used to control our child’s behaviour temporarily while we’re small or when we are in our parents’ presence, but it cannot control us now. As with all of us…
