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The greatest of what life has to offer is now available to US!

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Title: The greatest of what life has to offer is now available to US!
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When we have attempted to complete our course work we may not realise how gifted we are to have the capacity to be so honest with ourself....

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<span style="font-size: large;">When we have attempted to complete our course work we may not realise how gifted we are to have the capacity to be so honest with ourself.  The greatest of what life has to offer is now available to US!  Although the world’s sick liars now hate us, we have entered the realm of the child within.  All the most honest and wonderful and deepest and most truthful people throughout history were also similarly hated.  Mark our words, we are on the right recovery path.</span>

The greatest of what life has to offer is now available to US!

When we have attempted to complete our course work we may not realise how gifted we are to have the capacity to be so honest with ourself....

Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites.

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Title: Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites.
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Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites. Life can offer us no clearer sign that we have rejected o...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites.  Life can offer us no clearer sign that we have rejected our own inner self and hypocrite.  If the world’s liars and hypocrites loved us and accepted us as their own it would only show that we were still capitulating to their twisted thinking.</span>

Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites.

Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites. Life can offer us no clearer sign that we have rejected o...

Stagers are those who can deeply self-reflect.

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Title: Stagers are those who can deeply self-reflect.
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Stagers are those who can deeply self-reflect. We shall know ourselves at our deepest level, and this is to know our Child Within.

Stagers are those who can deeply self-reflect.

Stagers are those who can deeply self-reflect. We shall know ourselves at our deepest level, and this is to know our Child Within.

Stagers are those who have compassion for the struggles of others.

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Title: Stagers are those who have compassion for the struggles of others.
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Stagers are those who have compassion for the struggles of others. Our reward shall be compassion for ourselves.

Stagers are those who have compassion for the struggles of others.

Stagers are those who have compassion for the struggles of others. Our reward shall be compassion for ourselves.

Stagers are those who can realistically appraise our own insanity.

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Title: Stagers are those who can realistically appraise our own insanity.
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Stagers are those who can realistically appraise their own insanity. Our reward shall be unadulterated growth towards true sanity.

Stagers are those who can realistically appraise our own insanity.

Stagers are those who can realistically appraise their own insanity. Our reward shall be unadulterated growth towards true sanity.

Our circumstances are here, but they are not who we are.

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Title: Our circumstances are here, but they are not who we are.
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Lessons in life come bearing the gift of wisdom. We miss this gift when we begin to identify with the challenge or set back as “who we are...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Lessons in life come bearing the gift of wisdom. We miss this gift when we begin to identify with the challenge or set back as “who we are”. We are more than that - as is everyone else on this planet. We are far greater than we can imagine, but we doubt and we allow our current circumstances to dictate our possibilities.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />This is perhaps one of the greatest mistakes we can make. Our circumstances are here, but they are not who we are.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />When we reconnect back to our Child Within, we can literally change our reality by bringing more of the peace, abundance and joy that emanates from the power of our reconnected intuitive voice, onto the earth. In fact, this is our only job - to bring this so called Child Within us to earth, every day.</span>

Our circumstances are here, but they are not who we are.

Lessons in life come bearing the gift of wisdom. We miss this gift when we begin to identify with the challenge or set back as “who we are...

Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within
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Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within, who actively seeks alignment with the broader perspecti...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within, who actively seeks alignment with the broader perspective of the intuitive voice, who deliberately seeks and finds alignment with who-they-really-are, is more charismatic, more attractive, more effective, and more powerful than a group of millions who have not achieved this alignment.</span>

Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within

Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within, who actively seeks alignment with the broader perspecti...

At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping.
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At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping. This behaviour manifests itself l...

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<span style="font-size: large;"><br /><br /><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />This behaviour manifests itself later in all our addictions.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />The idea that we can BINGE and then CLEANSE was our old idea of balance for a long time, and often lurks in the dark recesses of our mind.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />But we didn’t feel well. we didn’t feel good. we</span></span><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"> just feel like we are on our addictive rollercoaster .</span></span><div>
<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br /><br /><br /> We’ve changed and begin to realise that the life we want is about a lifestyle choice – a day to day choice – a moment by moment choice – not some quick 10-week thing.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />We just had an awesome event at Recovering Relationships this past week called “Free Association” when we where we were there how to open their hearts and literally get into direct contact with our fellow stagers.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />It was awesome.<br /><br /><br /><br />It was a great feeling and has stayed with us the idea of complete freedom.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Regaining a new lifestyle that we’ve been refining for years and years. A lifestyle of balance.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />That’s our promise to ourself,  to live our ten stage lifestyle that best suits us and our child within feeling amazing every day.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />When our transformational goals have become our lifestyle, that is when we know we are well on your way to transformational recovery.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />What can we make our ten stage lifestyle today?</span></div>

At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping.

At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping. This behaviour manifests itself l...

Sorrow prepares you for joy.

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Title: Sorrow prepares you for joy.
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“Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yel...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">“Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place.” <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />- Rumi</span>

Sorrow prepares you for joy.

“Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yel...

Truth, like gold, is to be obtained not by its growth

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Title: Truth, like gold, is to be obtained not by its growth
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" Truth, like gold, is to be obtained not by its growth, but by washing away from it all that is not gold." - Leo Tolstoy

Truth, like gold, is to be obtained not by its growth

" Truth, like gold, is to be obtained not by its growth, but by washing away from it all that is not gold." - Leo Tolstoy

The goal is not to avoid pain or to deny what happened to us; the goal is to learn that we have the power of our child within

Fraser Trevor

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Title: The goal is not to avoid pain or to deny what happened to us; the goal is to learn that we have the power of our child within
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When something really unforeseen happens in our life and then you go seek help, in our society many caretakers will tell us that we had so...

The goal is not to avoid pain or to deny what happened to us; the goal is to learn that we have the power of our child within

When something really unforeseen happens in our life and then you go seek help, in our society many caretakers will tell us that we had so...

It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't express our child within.

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Title: It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't express our child within.
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It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't express our child within. And not just our small hidden child, We are talki...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />It's  impossible for us to know who we are if we don't express our child within.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />And not just our small hidden child, We are talking about our Authentic Wild Child. That part of us that knows our truth, that wants life to be fulfilling, that part of us that may be dying to express itself.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />But, if we do not express that part of ourself, then others won't be able to see it. And we won't be able to see how powerful that part of us truly is. Many of us keep our child within hidden because we are afraid that we are going to stir the pot too much. Or that we are going to be made wrong. Or that we are going to be judged, ridiculed or made fun of.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Perhaps we bought into a story that one of our parents, friends, teachers or family members told us. Something like, "You'll never be good" at this or that. And so we shut down, and in that moment we think that they are putting us in our place, but really we are putting ourselves there by agreeing with them.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />When we show our Child Within, it WILL shake things up.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Some people will applaud us. Others will shun us. The truth about life is that we either grow together or we grow apart.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />And since we are constantly growing if we are on the Path to our Recovery, it means that some people are in our lives for a season, or a reason or a lifetime. Celebrate those that you can journey with; they will be there for your whole life. And don't be afraid to let go of those who aren't growing with you, sometimes it's best to Love certain people from afar. And that's ok.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />The thing that we want to keep our minds set on is expressing our Authentic Child Within. This takes work. This WILL rock the boat, and this is probably the most important decision we could ever make in our lives. Because everything else revolves around how we see ourselves and then as a result how others see us.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />If we aren't seeing our ideal life manifesting around us, we need to ask ourself, "What do We REALLY believe about us and what’s possible in our Recovery?" "Am we expressing our Child Within ?" "Are We showing others who we REALLY are, or am we living a lie to get approval or Love?"<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Answering these questions will help us come closer to living our RECOVERY.</span><br />
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It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't express our child within.

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Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity

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Title: Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity
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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states control our behaviour at different times. One identity may be different from another, and when we are under the influence of one of our identities, we may forget our experiences when we switch back to the other identity. "When under the control of one identity, we are usually unable to remember some of the events that occurred while other personalities were in control." We may experience time loss, amnesia, and adopt different mannerisms, attitudes, speech and ideas under different personalities. We are often unaware of the different lives we lead or our dissociated state in general, feeling as though we are looking at others life through the lens of someone else, and even being unable to recognise ourselves in a mirror.The Ten Stages are the only answer for this basic dysfunction of the addicted.</span>

Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity

Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity in which two or more separate and distinct personality states cont...

Hopelessness and anger around parents due to the fear of being a disappointment.

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<span style="font-size: large;">We become conscious of our emotions during adolescence. We become aware of emotions such as shame, guilt, pride and embarrassment by the age of two, but do not fully understand how those emotions affect our life. By age 13, we have become more in touch with these emotions and begin to apply them to our own lives. A study entitled "The Construction of the Self" found that many adolescents display happiness and self-confidence around friends, but <i>hopelessness and anger around parents due to the fear of being a disappointment. </i>Teenagers were also shown to feel intelligent and creative around teachers, and shy, uncomfortable and nervous around people they were not familiar with.</span>

Hopelessness and anger around parents due to the fear of being a disappointment.

We become conscious of our emotions during adolescence. We become aware of emotions such as shame, guilt, pride and embarrassment by the a...

Around school age a child’s awareness of personal memory transitions into a sense of one's own self.

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<span style="font-size: large;">Self-awareness theory, developed by Duval and Wicklund in their 1972 landmark book A theory of objective self awareness, states that when we focus our attention on ourselves, we evaluate and compare our current behaviour to our internal standards and values. We become self-conscious as objective evaluators of ourselves. However self-awareness is not to be confused with self-consciousness. </span><div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Various emotional states are intensified by self-awareness. However, some people may seek to increase their self-awareness through these outlets. People are more likely to align their behaviour with their standards when made self-aware. People will be negatively affected if they don't live up to their personal standards. Various environmental cues and situations induce awareness of the self, such as mirrors, an audience, or being videotaped or recorded. These cues also increase accuracy of personal memory. In one of Demetriou's neo-Piagetian theories of cognitive development, self-awareness develops systematically from birth through the life span and it is a major factor for the development of general inferential processes. Moreover, a series of recent studies showed that self-awareness about cognitive processes participates in general intelligence on a par with processing efficiency functions, such as working memory, processing speed, and reasoning.Albert Bandura's theory of self-efficacy builds on our varying degrees of self-awareness. It is "the belief in one’s capabilities to organise and execute the courses of action required to manage prospective situations." A person’s belief in their ability to succeed sets the stage to how they think, behave and feel. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Someone with a strong self-efficacy, for example, views challenges as mere tasks that must be overcome, and are not easily discouraged by setbacks. They are aware of their flaws and abilities and choose to utilise these qualities to the best of their ability. Someone with a weak sense of self-efficacy evades challenges and quickly feels discouraged by setbacks. They may not be aware of these negative reactions, and therefore do not always change their attitude. This concept is central to Bandura’s social cognitive theory, "which emphasises the role of observational learning, social experience, and reciprocal determinism in the development of personality."<br /><br />Developmental stages<br />Individuals become conscious of themselves through the development of self-awareness. This particular type of self-development pertains to becoming conscious of one's own body and mental state of mind including thoughts, actions, ideas, feelings and interactions with others. "Self-awareness does not occur suddenly through one particular behavior: it develops gradually through a succession of different behaviors all of which relate to the self." The monitoring of one's mental states is called metacognition and it is considered to be an indicator that there is some concept of the self. It is developed through an early sense of non-self components using sensory and memory sources. In developing self –awareness through self-exploration and social experiences one can broaden their social world and become more familiar with the self.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />According to Emory University’s Philippe Rochat, there are five levels of self-awareness which unfold in early development and six potential prospects ranging from "Level 0" (having no self-awareness) advancing complexity to "Level 5" (explicit self-awareness).<br /><br />Level 0: Confusion. At this level the individual has a degree of zero self-awareness. This person is unaware of any mirror reflection or the mirror itself. They perceive the mirror as an extension of their environment. Level 0 can also be displayed when an adult frightens themselves in a mirror mistaking their own reflection as another person just for a second.<br /><br />Level 1: Differentiation. The individual realizes the mirror is able to reflect things. They see that what is in the mirror is different from what is surrounding them. At this level one can differentiate between their own movement in the mirror and the movement of the surrounding environment.<br /><br />Level 2: Situation. At this point an individual can link the movements on the mirror to what is perceived within their own body. This is the first hint of self-exploration on a projected surface where what is visualized on the mirror is special to the self.<br /><br />Level 3: Identification. The individual finds out that recognition takes effect. One can now see that what’s in the mirror is not another person but it is actually themselves. It is seen when a child refers to them self while looking in the mirror instead of referring to the mirror while referring to themselves. They have now identified self.<br /><br />Level 4: Permanence. Once an individual reaches this level they can identify the self beyond the present mirror imagery. They are able to identify the self in previous pictures looking different or younger. A "permanent self" is now experienced.<br /><br />Level 5: Self-consciousness or "meta" self-awareness. At this level not only is the self seen from a first person view but its realized that it’s also seen from a third person’s view. They begin to understand they can be in the mind of others. For instance, how they are seen from a public standpoint.<br /><br />Infancy and early childhood<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />By the time an average toddler reaches 18 months they will discover themselves and recognize their own reflection in the mirror. By the age of 24 months the toddler will observe and relate their own actions to those actions of other people and the surrounding environment. There are multiple experiments that show a child’s self-awareness. In what has come to be known as The Shopping Cart Task, "Children were asked to push a shopping the cart to their mothers but in attempting to do so they had to step on the mat and in consequence, their body weight prevented the cart from moving".<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Around school age a child’s awareness of personal memory transitions into a sense of one's own self. At this stage, a child begins to develop interests along with likes and dislikes. This transition enables the awareness of an individual’s past, present, and future to grow as conscious experiences are remembered more often.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />As a child’s self-awareness increases they tend to separate and become their own person. Their cognitive and social development allows "the taking of another's perspective and the accepting of inconsistencies." By adolescence, a coherent and integrated self-perception normally emerges. This very personal emerging perspective continues to direct and advance an individual’s self-awareness throughout their adult life.<br /><br />Adolescence<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />One becomes conscious of their emotions during adolescence. Most children are aware of emotions such as shame, guilt, pride and embarrassment by the age of two, but do not fully understand how those emotions affect their life. By age 13, children become more in touch with these emotions and begin to apply them to their own lives. A study entitled "The Construction of the Self" found that many adolescents display happiness and self-confidence around friends, but hopelessness and anger around parents due to the fear of being a disappointment. Teenagers were also shown to feel intelligent and creative around teachers, and shy, uncomfortable and nervous around people they were not familiar with.</span></div>

Around school age a child’s awareness of personal memory transitions into a sense of one's own self.

Self-awareness theory, developed by Duval and Wicklund in their 1972 landmark book A theory of objective self awareness, states that whe...

Self-awareness is tested through mirror self recognition.

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Studies have been done mainly on primates to test if self-awareness is present. Apes, monkeys, elephants, and dolphins have been studied mo...

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Studies have been done mainly on primates to test if self-awareness is present. Apes, monkeys, elephants, and dolphins have been studied most frequently. The most relevant studies to this day that represent self-awareness in animals have been done on chimpanzees, dolphins, and magpies. Self-awareness in animals is tested through mirror self recognition. Animals who show mirror self recognition go through four stages 1) social response, 2) physical mirror inspection, 3) repetitive mirror testing behavior, and 4) the mark test; which involves the animals spontaneously touching a mark on their body which would have been difficult to see without the mirror.<br /><br /><a href="http://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FFile%3ANICO_looks_at_himself.jpg&h=6AQGZrJN1&s=1"></a>The mirror test is a simple measure of self-awareness.<br /><br />The ‘Red Spot Technique’ created and experimented by Gordon Gallup studies self-awareness in animals (primates). Toivanen says on a study done on perceptual self-awareness,"The attribution of self-perception to animals is based on a distinction between the experiential awareness of the soul and the intellectual understanding of its essence, a distinction postulated." In this technique, a red odorless spot is placed on an anesthetized primate’s forehead. The spot is placed on the forehead so that it can only be seen through a mirror. Once the individual awakens, independent movements toward the spot after seeing their reflection in a mirror are observed. During the Red Spot Technique, after looking in the mirror, chimpanzees used their fingers to touch the red dot that was on their forehead and after touching the red dot they would even smell their fingertips. "Animals that can recognize themselves in mirrors can conceive of themselves," says Gallup. Another prime example are elephants. Three elephants were exposed to large mirrors where experimenters studied the reaction when they saw their reflection. These elephants were given the "litmus mark test" in order to see whether they were aware of what they were looking at. This visible mark was applied on the elephants and the researchers reported a large progress with self-awareness. The elephants shared this success rate with other animals such as monkeys and dolphins.<br /><br />Chimpanzees and other apes – species which have been studied extensively – compare the most to humans with the most convincing findings and straightforward evidence in the relativity of self-awareness in animals so far. Dolphins were put to a similar test and achieved the same results. Diana Reiss, a psycho-biologist at the New York Aquarium discovered that bottlenose dolphins can recognise themselves in mirrors.<br /><br />Researchers used the Mark test or Mirror test to study the magpie’s self awareness. As a majority of birds are blind below the beak, Prior and colleagues marked the birds’ neck with three different colours: red, yellow and a black imitation, as magpies are originally black. When placed in front of a mirror, the birds with the red and yellow spots began scratching at their necks, signaling the understanding of something different being on their bodies. During one trial with a mirror and a mark, three out of the five magpies showed a minimum of one example of self-directed behaviour. The magpies explored the mirror by moving toward it and looking behind it. One of the magpies, Harvey, during several trials would pick up objects, posed, did some wing-flapping, all in front of the mirror with the objects in his beak. This represents a sense of self-awareness; knowing what is going on within himself and in the present. The authors suggest that self-recognition in birds and mammals may be a case of convergent evolution, where similar evolutionary pressures result in similar behaviors or traits, although they arrive at them via different routes.<br /><br />A few slight occurrences of behavior towards the magpie's own body happened in the trial with the black mark and the mirror. It is an assumption in this study that the black mark may have been slightly visible on the black feathers. Prior and Colleagues, stated "This is an indirect support for the interpretation that the behavior towards the mark region was elicited by seeing the own body in the mirror in conjunction with an unusual spot on the body."<br /><br />The behaviors of the magpies clearly contrasted with no mirror present. In the no-mirror trials, a non-reflective gray plate of the same size and in the same position as the mirror was swapped in. There were not any mark directed self-behaviors when the mark was present, in color, or in black. Prior and Colleagues, data quantitatively matches the findings in chimpanzees. In summary of The Mark Test, the results show that magpies understand that a mirror image represents their own body; magpies show to have self-awareness.<br />Cooperation and evolutionary problems<br /><br />Just as Swiss cleaning robots perform behaviors that effectively cleans a room without being aware of it or having any program to detect debris, an organism can be effectively altruistic without being self-aware, aware of any distinction between egoism and altruism, or aware of qualia in others. This by simple reactions to specific situations which happens to benefit other individuals in the organism's natural environment. If self-awareness led to a necessity of an emotional empathy mechanism for altruism and egoism being default in its absence, that would have precluded evolution from a state without self-awareness to a self-aware state in all social animals. The ability of the theory of evolution to explain self-awareness can be rescued by abandoning the hypothesis of self-awareness being a basis for cruelty.<div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;">
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Self-awareness is tested through mirror self recognition.

Studies have been done mainly on primates to test if self-awareness is present. Apes, monkeys, elephants, and dolphins have been studied mo...

The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association

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Title: The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association
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The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association which in the context of truth,trust and consent bec...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association which in the context of truth,trust and consent become useful and effective, the stagers do not attempt to edit or sensor themselves, even, or perhaps especially, when those words seem strange, illogical or socially inappropriate. Nothing that comes to mind is unimportant, even the words are embarrassing or bizarre. At first, this can be very challenging; we have become used to continually monitoring our audible thoughts; but with practice and a level of comfort established between stagers, the practice becomes less onerous and more useful. The connections other stagers are able to make between these seemingly random thought can often offer valuable information for our study groups, who then helps us identify those connections, recognise blocks, problems and successes, and therefore, become a more fully self- realised member.</span>

The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association

The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association which in the context of truth,trust and consent bec...

The Ten Stages are an experiential course usually of ten week duration

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">The Ten Stages are an experiential course usually of ten week duration, it consists of basic meditational practice, discussion and study. Part of the course is taken up with a revolutionary method of studying our child within, this is not inner child work. We look at ways of discerning what constitutes the parental voice and where it comes from.The Ten Stages is non-religious, not  new age or spiritual is not a drop in centre and respects the individual nature of its students. We study with enhanced protection for our students with no mentors, gurus, sponsors or leaders. We create a place of truth , trust and consent .The Study/discussion time is usually of four hour duration.</span>

The Ten Stages are an experiential course usually of ten week duration

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Awakening to the carpet of Silence

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A carpet of silence is what we have to create in order to enter into first stage of sanctuary.A gentle acknowledgement of a journey inwa...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">A carpet of silence is what we have to create in order to enter into first stage of sanctuary.A gentle acknowledgement of a journey inward back to the beginnings. This is a tall order for us  nowadays. To begin with notice that silence is considered awkward.Silence disturbs us. On the other hand there are silences that console us. The silence in nature of a great forest or majestic mountains. At this stage we start to look at silence as the start of therapy.</span>

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Punishment didn’t solve our child withins problems; it intensifies them.<br /><br /><br />Want to know a secret about punishment?<br /><br />It requires constant escalation.<br /><br />In order to maintain the temporary effect of controlling behaviour, the punishment, or threats of punishment, must constantly be ramped up. we who had the experience of starting out with popping a tiny hand escalate to smacking a chubby little leg, then paddling a small bottom. Over time, as our children’s needs which have been driven underground emerge in ever-increasing behavioural issues, we found out often they the controllers are resorting to yelling and threats and physical punishment more and more often.<br /><br /><br />We who have experienced the use punishment-based parenting approaches other than physical punishment find that they must escalate and escalate to keep us under ‘control.’ Behaviour charts, time-outs, grounding, and removing privileges are some examples of non-physical punishment-based behaviour we have experienced. While these behaviour modification techniques may be less painful our child within physically, they still didn’t address the underlying needs being communicated by the behaviour and often are as destructive to the parent/child relationship.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Within our child often punishment has been used to control our child’s behaviour temporarily while we’re small or when we are in our parents’ presence, but it cannot control us now. As with all of us, outward behaviour is merely a reflection of our child within: Our needs, our hurts, our emotional states.<br /><br />While the temporary ‘payoff’ of punishment for adults may be compliance, the needs behind the behaviour are never addressed and those needs merely get driven underground  often emerging later in more potentially damaging behaviours such as lying, sneaking, anger, outright rebellion, depression, aggression, and our addictions.</span><br />
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Within our child often punishment has been used to control our child’s behaviour temporarily

Within our child often punishment has been used to control our child’s behaviour temporarily while we’re small or when we are in our p...

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Stagers are fortunate when we are rejected by the world’s liars and hypocrites.

Stagers are those who can deeply self-reflect.

Stagers are those who have compassion for the struggles of others.

Stagers are those who can realistically appraise our own insanity.

Our circumstances are here, but they are not who we are.

Someone who takes the time to understand their relationship with the child within

At sometime we started a never-ending cycle of trying a fad and stopping. Trying a process and stopping.

Sorrow prepares you for joy.

Truth, like gold, is to be obtained not by its growth

The goal is not to avoid pain or to deny what happened to us; the goal is to learn that we have the power of our child within

It's impossible for us to know who we are if we don't express our child within.

Dissociation is a disorder involving a disturbance of our identity

Hopelessness and anger around parents due to the fear of being a disappointment.

Around school age a child’s awareness of personal memory transitions into a sense of one's own self.

Self-awareness is tested through mirror self recognition.

The Stages sometimes depending on the dynamics uses short sessions of free association

The Ten Stages are an experiential course usually of ten week duration

Awakening to the carpet of Silence

The Ten Stage taught Course Work Design

Punishment didn’t solve our child withins problems; it intensifies them.

Within our child often punishment has been used to control our child’s behaviour temporarily

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