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Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't true.

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't true. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">They are simply living in bondage of the fear that isn't even real. Instead of buying into what you see, hear and feel from the outside world, check inside and listen to the subtle whispers of our heart and of The Child Within. They don't have the seal of some major treatment facility or a degree from a rehab, but those whispers from our child within are what have guided all the great beings of our world to do amazing things. Greatness is simply trusting ourself more and more every day.<br /><br />So, can you detach from the nightmares of others and begin to live our own recovery? Do we have what it takes to call fear's bluff and to call the bluff of the recovery world? We want to know!</span><br />
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Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't true.

Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't...

Let us be mindful of our actions.

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Let us be mindful of our actions.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Let us be mindful of our actions. The precursor to action is thought. Sometimes it can be VERY hard to be aware of what we are actually th...

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<span style="font-size: large;">Let us be mindful of our actions.<br /><br />The precursor to action is thought. Sometimes it can be VERY hard to be aware of what we are actually thinking, especially because many of our actions come from our unconscious thoughts trapped inside our child within. If we want to tap into what’s really running us, but are having a hard time, let us see what actions we are taking.<br /><br />We want recovery, but we run away when it shows up. There is a misalignment there of desire and thought.<br /><br />In this literal world, we can LITERALLY create (from the inside out) any type of experience we wish to choose. It is when our desires, our thoughts and our actions are in alignment that this kind of life begins to emerge.<br /><br />The seed of a desire for something greater lives within all of us, but our lack of action prevents that kind of life from unfolding.<br /><br />Imagine if a farmer had seeds and land to plant his seeds, but doubted that the seeds would grow if he planted them. So if this doubt were strong enough, the seeds would never get planted. Or, they get planted, but then the farmer becomes too impatient and digs up the seeds the next day or the next week because the crop hasn’t come yet.<br /></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">The farmer still has no harvest. Then a second farmer comes by at harvest time with a full crop of harvest, and the first farmer gets jealous and angry at the second farmer for having abundance. The first farmer may blame The Universe or say, “People like me aren’t supposed to have this harvest,” but in reality, it is the farmer's own doubt and impatience that prevents him from reaping his harvest.<br /><br />We are many times like the first farmer. Our seeds are our desires. Our fields are our daily actions. We must plant our desires in actions and then be patient. If weeds of doubt creep in, we must clear them out. And in perfect time we will be able to harvest the fruit of our faith.<br /><br />This is how life is. We need to nurture the fertile soil of our actions with faith and patience.<br /><br />So, today, are we not getting what we want? Look at our desires. Look at our actions. Where is there a disconnect? How can we adjust our actions to sync up with our recovery? And, if that feels weird, how can we change our MENTAL habits to allow ourself to take the proper action that is in alignment with our recovery?<br /><br />The answers to the lack we may be temporarily experiencing are all within our child. Show up, let go and trust The Stages one day at a time. Get our desires, thoughts and actions in alignment with our perfect child within and then let our patience and faith shower down on the fertile soil of our actions.<br /><br />Our harvest WILL come.</span><br />
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We must have the mind of our child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of recovery. What is a child like?  A child is new, untainted and curious. A child knows nothing of failure, of heartbreak, of death or other people’s opinions. A child lives curiously in the present. Let us make our goal to let go of the tainted old thoughts that hold us back. The thoughts that there is no love out there, that our dreams are not achievable, that happy endings don’t exist or that you’re just not supposed to succeed. Let us make it our aim to return to having the mind of our child within. Not forgetting our historical past whatever the circumstances, but understanding learning from it and not allowing it to taint our present moment.<br /><br />Let us not know anything of failure and just proceed daily with the intention that we will eventually get it right. Let us not give up in frustration but instead return to curiosity and see everything that happens as a lesson and let us remember that delays are not denials.<br /><br />Our recovery. When we meet our recovery of life with a new mind, in every moment we begin to move our perceptions into the magic of our child within. We begin to enjoy the journey instead of being terrified by it. When we have the mind of our child, we are humble and receptive to new information. We do not let our egos get the best of us, so that we can humbly follow guidance rather than thinking that we know it all. Having the mind of our child is the first movement, but once we do, we have now properly mentally prepared ourselves for our full recovery. If we enter our recovery with a tainted, jaded and cynical mindset, we will miss many opportunities and improperly label our intuitive voice as disaster.<br /><br />Let us make it our intention to set out on recovery today with the new mind of our child within. Not throwing away what we’ve learned, but learning to reinterpret what we’ve been through so that it serves us moving forward, rather than hold us back. Let us meet recovery from a curious, humble, yet empowered point of view that turns disaster into grace, rejection into protection and crisis into opportunity.<br /><br />You see, when we meet our recovery in this new way, life opens up. We begin to let go of what pains us and embrace what sustains us. We see everything in a new way and can receive, where before we have judged everything with a parental voice and kept out.<br /><br />To be humble, curious and new in our approach, but still honour our intelligence will produce the highest form of living. This is the approach that enables us to manifest that which we truly desire.<br /><br />Let us be willing today. Let us meet today with the new eyes of our child within. Let us decide to be recovered anew today.</span><br />
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We must have the mind of our child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of recovery.

We must have the mind of our child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of recovery. What is a child like? A child is new, unt...

We have died inwardly before we even become adults.

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">We have died inwardly before we even become adults. Our childhood emotional traumas overcome us and snuff out our child hidden within. Our material systems convert our minds into deadness. We lose our creativity and wildness, we block out the emotional reality of our childhoods, and we become automatons. we only survive in order to live for comfort, happiness, and emotional camouflage. We become the brainwashed norm.</span><br />
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Within the centre of each of us lives our child within.

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Within the centre of each one of us lives our child within.The Child Within we once were.This child constitutes the foundation of what w...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Within the centre of each one of us lives our child within.The Child Within we once were.This child constitutes the foundation of what we have become, who we are and what we will be.Often this child lives in suppressed isolation constantly awaiting contact.</span>

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Everything is worth sacrificing on the cause to know our child within: Parents, friends, job, money, sex, relationships, procreation, che...

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True recovery lives entirely within ourself

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True recovery lives entirely within ourself:  the marriage between the consciousness of our mind and the core of our spirit.  It takes full devotion to nurture this marriage.  When we divert from our path toward recovery, be it through desire for sex or through any other addiction, we cheat on ourself and stunt our progress.</span>

True recovery lives entirely within ourself

True recovery lives entirely within ourself: the marriage between the consciousness of our mind and the core of our spirit. It takes f...

We do not squander our RECOVERY in trifling battles with disconnected people

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Title: We do not squander our RECOVERY in trifling battles with disconnected people
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We have a true purpose in our RECOVERY, and an enormous potential – we do not squander it in trifling battles with disconnected people ...

<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br /><br />We have a true purpose in our RECOVERY, and an enormous potential – </span><br />
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we do not squander it  in trifling battles with disconnected people who are entrenched in their own miserable dishonesty. We have everything to lose.  They will kill your recovery in a second to protect their lies – and you will get nothing out of it, because they are not open to your point of view.  Pick your battles, and fight the war within! Do not connect with others addictional overlay.</span>

We do not squander our RECOVERY in trifling battles with disconnected people

We have a true purpose in our RECOVERY, and an enormous potential – we do not squander it in trifling battles with disconnected people ...

We ask ourself the deepest questions of our recovery

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Title: We ask ourself the deepest questions of our recovery
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We ask ourself the deepest questions of our recovery: we shall hear the reply from our intuitive voice. Look within our child: the solut...

We ask ourself the deepest questions of our recovery

We ask ourself the deepest questions of our recovery: we shall hear the reply from our intuitive voice. Look within our child: the solut...

If our life’s priority is not to nurture our own path toward recovery

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Title: If our life’s priority is not to nurture our own path toward recovery
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If our life’s priority is not to nurture our own path toward recovery, we are a hypocrites. If we are disconnected from the full truth o...

If our life’s priority is not to nurture our own path toward recovery

If our life’s priority is not to nurture our own path toward recovery, we are a hypocrites. If we are disconnected from the full truth o...

We do not use others’ lack of healing as an excuse for not recovering ourself

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Title: We do not use others’ lack of healing as an excuse for not recovering ourself
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We do not use others’ lack of healing as an excuse for not recovering ourself. It is all too easy to focus on others’ flaws at the expens...

We do not use others’ lack of healing as an excuse for not recovering ourself

We do not use others’ lack of healing as an excuse for not recovering ourself. It is all too easy to focus on others’ flaws at the expens...

Self-deceptive those firmly entrenched in denial genuinely believe that they are healed

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Title: Self-deceptive those firmly entrenched in denial genuinely believe that they are healed
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Self-deceptive those firmly entrenched in denial genuinely believe that they are healed, when in reality they are only totally fooling t...

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Self-deceptive those firmly entrenched in denial genuinely believe that they are healed, when in reality they are only totally fooling themselves.  To know themselves would be too painful.  To know themselves would require that they face the pain of their buried traumas…and leave their worlds of padded comfort behind.</span>

Self-deceptive those firmly entrenched in denial genuinely believe that they are healed

Self-deceptive those firmly entrenched in denial genuinely believe that they are healed, when in reality they are only totally fooling t...

Fellowship Recovery will not protect the self-deceptive from their lies.

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Title: Fellowship Recovery will not protect the self-deceptive from their lies.
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Fellowship Recovery will not protect the self-deceptive from their lies. We will not bolster their insane and pain-avoid-ant defences. W...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">Fellowship Recovery will not protect the self-deceptive from their lies. We will not bolster their insane and pain-avoid-ant defences. We know the stinking rot they hold in check underneath their surfaces, and the rot they subtly manifest to everyone who comes under their sway. We know they are twisted and disturbed, and have no business leading others in Recovery.</span><br />
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Title: To truly contribute to our RECOVERY
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To truly contribute to our RECOVERY we must have a clean and unadulterated view into the depths of ourself. To do this we must first resp...

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<span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;">To truly contribute to our RECOVERY we must have a clean and unadulterated view into the depths of ourself.  To do this we must first respect the property line of our neighbour’s child within – using loving-kindness and deep compassion then clean up our own side of the street to show the power of our recovery.</span><br />
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Now is not the time to let those who are living their addiction nightmare convince you that your recovery in the ten stages aren't true.

Let us be mindful of our actions.

We must have the mind of our child within in order to grasp the deeper meaning of recovery.

We have died inwardly before we even become adults.

Recovery is a painful thing to wake up to.

Within the centre of each of us lives our child within.

Our answers only lie within.

Promises only block the path to our recovery.

The path to our child within is all that matters.

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We do not squander our RECOVERY in trifling battles with disconnected people

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